..are friends really what they are?????

..we go thru many phases in our life...meeting and making new friends all the time..i recently made a good friend,we met at work..kind of...i didn't really like her at first..becos of some shortcoming in her towards our religion..but eventually i realised we shoudn't judge a person like that..at least give her the benefit of the doubt...we get along well..mutually..until something happened recently..i'm quite sceptical bout her honesty..and my heart really is venturing towards hostility...urgh!i hate this!..should i be selfish?? and follow this negativity in me???..or should i just let the whole thing pass on and pretend nothing happened???...maybe she acted out of sheer desperation...maybe...huh???...i don't know...i can't stand it but since i now know what she is capable of..i shall maintain a distance...be wary and careful...whatever it is...experience makes us none the wiser...sigh!!!